par D'Amore, Salvatore ;Gubello, Alessio ;Cash, Christopher ;Carone, Nicola
Référence Sexuality research and social policy.
Publication Publié, 2025
Article révisé par les pairs
Résumé : Introduction: Surrogacy is an increasingly viable path to parenthood for same-gender male couples, yet little research has explored their emotional and social experiences. This study qualitatively examined gay fathers’ transition to parenthood via cross-border surrogacy, by focusing on emotional processes, boundary ambiguity, and relationships with “reproductive third others” (i.e., egg donors and surrogates), from conception decision-making to childbirth. Methods: A total of 30 gay fathers (comprising 15 couples; Mage = 40.47, SD = 2.93) of 22 children (Mage = 5.36, SD = 1.89; 50% assigned female at birth), residing in Belgium and France, participated in a joint semi-structured interview. Results: Reflexive thematic analysis identified four overarching themes: (1) “Fostering the desire to become a parent: from mourning to hope”; (2) “Surrogacy as a roller-coaster: long-distance pregnancy, practical complexities, and emotional ambivalence”; (3) “Disclosing surrogacy origins to the child: transparency in evolving narratives”; and (4) “‘Third others’ in procreation and the recognition of double fatherhood.” Conclusions: This study confirms that surrogacy for gay fathers is not merely a reproductive method but a complex emotional and relational experience, marked by unique stressors such as emotional ambivalence, legal uncertainty, and the challenges of maintaining cross-border relationships with surrogates. Policy Implications: To support gay father families, policies must ensure inclusive, harmonized legal recognition of intended parents, provide equitable access to surrogacy regardless of sexual orientation, and establish cross-border support systems—alongside comprehensive training for professionals to address the nuanced realities of LGBTQ+ family formation.

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